Unless of course it's someone else who's begging 'me' to let 'them' suck 'my' dick. I'm not the type who thinks begging is foreplay. And if it's not fun for her it's not fun for me. Oh she'll do it from time to time but without the enthusiasm she once conveyed. I love her dearly but the impromptu blowjobs stopped shortly after the birth of our first child. She knew she could always get me going by simply sitting next to me and rubbing my dick through my pants, pulling it out and giving me head. But she was much more spontaneous when we were dating. We have always had great sex and she is open to new sex play. My wife Terri and I met when we were in college. I have been married for the past four years.